Thinking aloud

hey girl. okay i'm thinking that you should find that one special woman you can become intimate with but be careful not to catch anything else. i'm so sorry your husband has given you herpes. i will keep you in my prayer's that you will find what you are looking for and you get the pleasure that you really want if you need to talk you can message me any time i am here for you .... thats so great he is supportive of you with doing this considering h's the one who cheated and gave you this virus. i would also find a female who is aware of the fact you have herpes and i wouldn't become sexually active until you are not expercing a break out just becareful.
< 3 princess <3

That's the plan just not sure if I want an actual relationship or jut someone that wants a sex only thing. Idk I hate cheating on him even though he says I'm not. As far a herpes my form of it luckily isn't as bad as his. I'm not sure if I want a partner that has it, there's only a 1% chance that someone gets it from me because I'm on suppressive therapy & if I get with someone that's not infected I can perform oral.

either way you will still get yours lol but if he says its okay hunnie go for it no problem or maybe try a three way that sparks up the relationship any way ... is the herpes on your genitals or oral just as long as your taking proper care then everything will be okay. also becareful not to get who ever your with infected. also be care not too run into any morons and if you feel like im getting to personal message me okay sweetie and also we are both grown here so it should be fine . either way just as long as you know that im always here for you . send a message or whatever im here the world doesn't have to know your business. just be open to those options there are plenty out there trust me. :] smiles all around and one thing to be mindful of is some one you would least epect to be bi just might be and you never would even know and they could have a crush on you but just explore your options and they might just be the one they could be flirting with you in so many ways so just keep a eye open you never know what lives beneath.
keep me posted okay..
princess

let me know how it turns out good or bad then you should try a new alternative

I say go for the girlfriend and do tell her right away, and just talk to your doctor about it and maybe even take the new girlfriend with you, she might have question and the doctor will have the answers for you both. You should have someone who makes you happy.

i agree with moondancer