Married Couple Dating

I don't believe it's weird. I'm sort of going through the same thing. I told my bff, whom is a male and I fell in love with my secret of being attracted to women. Due to certain circumstances he and I can't be together. We don't want to see each other being intimate with others of the opposite sex, so I thought it is time to find a woman to start a friendship and perhaps having it lead to something more tangible. I just moved to a new city myself. I only have one friend and I don't go to bars either. I have tried dating sites/Apps, but it seems impossible. I am intrigued to find out how deep of a connection and love I can have with another woman is. I have. Only told maybe 3 people. I keep it discreet because of judgment, fear of ridicule and rejection.

My dad told me I was bisexual for years. I suppose I have denied it for so long because I wanted to prove him wrong. The older I get, the more I can't deny the attraction I have towards other women. I don't know what to do or where to start myself.

Thanks for your words. I find it nice to see its not just me :) So how is it done? I'd imagine when trying to pick up a woman, its like flirting with a guy, right? Just make a few adjustments to gear it towards a woman. Then what, how do I know if shes getting it, maybe it'll just be obvious. I doubt theres a code word i should whisper, haha.
Here's the klinker, I'm so awkward! I say the wrong thing everytime without thinkin"you dont smell bad" also trying to make conversasion in bathroom not good idea, too creepy maybe? I guess I'll never know til i try. I think signing up for some sort of activity, sport, non-school class or group could improve my social skills a bit.
As for you, how are you dealing? What have you thought about trying to do? Do you have people in mind youd like to contact? I bet its hard with 2 kids getting everything done. I bet alot of your needs arent being met. Probly becase like everyother mom, you give to your kids b4 yourself. When do you get free time, if ever? How do you spoil yourself? Any guilty pleasures...mine's ice cream and lately ive been indulging too much :)

I am married but my husband and I were seperated for a short time during which I met a woman I had to have. Until that moment, I hadn't met a woman I wanted to have sex with but when I saw her, I couldn't get her out of my head. I came on to her by asking her advice on a wine to choose for a friend, I ended up giving her my number and I was completely honest with her about all aspects of my life- when she didn't run away screaming, we became inseperable. We were both each others first woman and you would think that would make us akward in bed but no it didn't. It was the most passionate, intense, mind blowing sex ever. We held nothing back and were very open to trying toys, positions- anyhting you can think of. I am now back with my husband but her and I still stay in contact, we are close friends and enjoyed that aspect of the relationship too. I say go for it or you'll never know what your missing, it was WONDERFUL! We were together about 11 times and all were memorable. I was married with 2 teenage sons and she was single and 9 years younger than me, I was 38 and she was 29. I don't regret it for a second.

It's a wonderful experience! My husband & I were having threesomes for a while until he cheated & got herpes. Now we stopped the threesomes but he is encouraging me to find a girlfriend to satisfy my needs since he & I are no longer intimate really. It's good to know I'm not alone!

i CURIOUS TOO AND ALSO MARRIED BUT, HUSBAND ISNT SUPPORTIVE.. WE TRIED THREESOMES WIH ANOTHER MAN AND THAT WENT OK. BUT, NOW NOPE.. HE SAYS IF I AM CURIOUS WE NEED TO GET DIVORCED..

I wish my husband was more open minded .. we dont even have sex no more.. threesomes are so fun with the right person and can really spice up a marriage... best wishes!!!

I wish my husband was more open minded .. we dont even have sex no more.. threesomes are so fun with the right person and can really spice up a marriage... best wishes!!!