I am confused

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I have struggled with my sexuality for some time. I just don't know, I am attracted to guys- I know that. But I also feel like sometimes I'm attracted to girls too. I don't know if it's attraction, because I think that half the time I shrug it off as jealousy. But I just don't know. How do you know if it's attraction. I'm okay with it, I just don't know. How did everyone else figure it out?

 
By hiswife84 on Mon, 02-27-12, 18:35

If you're attracted to females you're attracted, there's no special level of attraction you have to reach to be bi. It just is. I mean do females turn you on? Do you see a female & think about kissing her or hugging her or having sex with her? If so you might me bi.

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By asalisbury112408 on Tue, 02-28-12, 07:30

I think about all of those things. Am I just trying to justify it away?

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By nicolecintron97 on Tue, 02-28-12, 07:34

I think of all the somethings but I don't think I'm BI i think I'm BI curious but not officially BI

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By nicolecintron97 on Tue, 02-28-12, 07:37

I think about all those things to but I don't think I'm BI yet I thinking BI curious but not officially BI

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By hiswife84 on Tue, 02-28-12, 08:03

Idk if I really believe in the bi curious deal. I mean you are r you aren't you can't be just a little pregnant, know what I mean. If being with a females turns you on makes you wet & excited then I think you're pretty much bi. There's no real way to justify it away. You are what you are.

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By hiswife84 on Tue, 02-28-12, 08:03

Idk if I really believe in the bi curious deal. I mean you are r you aren't you can't be just a little pregnant, know what I mean. If being with a females turns you on makes you wet & excited then I think you're pretty much bi. There's no real way to justify it away. You are what you are.

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By nicolecintron97 on Tue, 02-28-12, 19:11

Sorry for posting it twice I thought it didn't post the first time.And lol that's a funny way to put it but I understand.I guess I don't fully think I'm BI yet I think I'm just BI curious right now

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By hiswife84 on Tue, 02-28-12, 19:39

Same here about the post & idk I just think if you're attracted you're attracted. It's not a bad thing. One of the girls I was involved with swore up & down she was straight not even bi but flat out straight! Yet she would crawl in my bed & nearly beg me to fuck her.

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By hiswife84 on Tue, 02-28-12, 19:39

Same here about the post & idk I just think if you're attracted you're attracted. It's not a bad thing. One of the girls I was involved with swore up & down she was straight not even bi but flat out straight! Yet she would crawl in my bed & nearly beg me to fuck her.

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By hiswife84 on Tue, 02-28-12, 19:39

Same here about the post & idk I just think if you're attracted you're attracted. It's not a bad thing. One of the girls I was involved with swore up & down she was straight not even bi but flat out straight! Yet she would crawl in my bed & nearly beg me to fuck her.

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